Christmas is loud, chaotic, and brilliant.
Christmas mindfulness Here’s what the old philosophers knew that still works today:
1. The Stoic Reminder: This Moment Won’t Last
Marcus Aurelius wrote: “Time is a river of passing events.”
Your kids tearing through wrapping paper at 6am? That exact chaos won’t happen again.
Your nan telling the same story for the fifth time? One day you’d give anything to hear it once more.
The Stoics weren’t being morbid – they were saying: Don’t wish it away. Even the messy bits matter.
2. The Buddhist Truth: Joy Lives in Small Things
Buddhism teaches that happiness isn’t in the big dramatic moments.
It’s in tiny, ordinary things you actually notice.
The smell of coffee on Christmas morning. The sound of everyone laughing at once. Your dog going mental over torn wrapping paper.
The magic’s already there. You just have to stop scrolling long enough to see it.
3. The Shared Wisdom: Let People Be People
Both philosophies agree: Stop trying to change everyone.
Your brother’s going to make that joke. Your sister’s going to be late. Someone’s going to argue about the telly.
They’re being exactly who they are.
And that’s the whole point of gathering – not perfection, just presence.
Your Christmas practice:
When it gets overwhelming, just pause for three seconds.
Notice one good thing happening right now.
That’s it. That’s the practice.
The turkey, the mess, the chaos, the joy it’s all temporary.
Which means it’s all worth paying attention to.
Merry Christmas.
Go enjoy the beautiful disaster.
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